Remember to be positive
Parenting relationships (generally) start off positive – working together, supporting each other and the children – with the expectation that it will continue that way. However, as difficult as it is, separation may occur. The hardest part of any separation can be the hurt, mistrust and outside factors that can influence how parents who once cared deeply for each other are able to maintain a workable and trusting co-parenting relationship post-separation. It is so easy to become disheartened, angry and grief-stricken and, rather than considering what is in the children’s best interests, a negative narrative starts. What is a negative narrative? It can be something as simple as believing that every comment, reaction, text message or input of the other parent is against you or the co-parenting relationship. It can be a parent always expecting the other parent to do wrong by them personally or by the children. It could be thinking a new partner is disapproving of or undermining, your ...